The Titanic and the Important Family: Working with a Client’s Dreams (Copy)
Lane Gormley Lane Gormley

The Titanic and the Important Family: Working with a Client’s Dreams (Copy)

Freud called Dreams “The Royal Road to the Unconscious” because they reflect our innermost concerns - concerns of which we are not fully aware. If you document your dreams and become aware of your own dream language, you will be amazed at the wealth of knowledge and the richness they bring to your self-exploration.

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Driving in Cars: Two Clients’ Dreams and How They Helped Us
Lane Gormley Lane Gormley

Driving in Cars: Two Clients’ Dreams and How They Helped Us

My Clients often speak of their dreams dismissively, saying that they are “silly”, nonsensical, and bizarre. I try to help them see each dream as a message from the Self to Itself, a jewel-like insight into their Unconsious. When we receive and review clues about our Unconscious, we can often use them to clarify and facilitate our Process.

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It's All About You: The Power of Narrative Therapy
Lane Gormley Lane Gormley

It's All About You: The Power of Narrative Therapy

When my Clients like to write or journal, we have an advantage. Therapy is a search for insight; and writing is a tremendous help in looking within. The things that my Clients write are keys to their self-understanding as well as a basis for important questions that their therapist might not know to ask if she were not their reader.

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What the Voices Say: An Examination of Alternate Realities
Lane Gormley Lane Gormley

What the Voices Say: An Examination of Alternate Realities

A considerable number of my Clients hear Voices that I do not hear. Are these uncomfortable symptoms? Or are they are sources of knowledge and insight? I am always interested in hearing about them and in helping my Clients examine them. If you are interested in them also, please read further.

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Decisions, Decisions…
Lane Gormley Lane Gormley

Decisions, Decisions…

What is it that makes people who have just entered therapy want to make sudden, life-changing decisions? Early therapy is a time of fluctuating emotion, of changing desires and plans. This is a time to feel, think, and wait. So, one thing I suggest to my Clients is When in doubt, do nothing.

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How We Grow and Learn: Erik Erikson’s Stages of Development
Lane Gormley Lane Gormley

How We Grow and Learn: Erik Erikson’s Stages of Development

Growing up is a process, and it is a process to which we should give some thought if we want to understand ourselves as Human Beings and if we want to raise healthy children. Understanding how our early, middle and late development challenges us as we live and grow can be a vital part of goal setting in therapy.

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Alcohol & Drug Abuse: Difficult Detours on the Road to Meaning
Lane Gormley Lane Gormley

Alcohol & Drug Abuse: Difficult Detours on the Road to Meaning

People who have not learned to manage stress and/or anger or grief or who find it difficult to identify and express other emotions might drink or use drugs to keep those scary emotions at bay. Psychotherapy can help them recognize and deal with the powerful, unexpressed thoughts and feelings that sustain their addiction. It can help them do their “Inner Work”.

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Addicted to Love… and Behaviors and Brain Chemicals
Lane Gormley Lane Gormley

Addicted to Love… and Behaviors and Brain Chemicals

The idea that we could be addicted to alcohol or drugs, unable to stop using a substance and walk away from it, is widely accepted in our society. The idea that we might be addicted to some of our own emotional states (like obsessive love, uncontrolled eating, blind hatred) is less common in our day and age. Breaking patterns that harm us is a learned skill.

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Lullaby and Goodnight: The Fundamentals of Sleep
Lane Gormley Lane Gormley

Lullaby and Goodnight: The Fundamentals of Sleep

The brain also needs sleep in order to function optimally. During sleep, the brain attempts to repair neurons, make sense of our conscious activities, store memories, organize information, solve problems, and make decisions.

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Coaching for Parents of Teens
Lane Gormley Lane Gormley

Coaching for Parents of Teens

One thing that I have noticed in my many years as a practitioner is the tendency of parents to imagine that something is wrong with a child who has entered the teen years.

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